Marriage is a wonderful invention;
but, then again, so is a bicycle
repair kit.
--Geoffrey Chaucer
I've given my
memoirs far more thought than any of my marriages. You
can't divorce a book.
--Gloria Swanson
Marriage is like
twirling a baton, turning hand springs or eating with
chopsticks. It looks easy until you try it.
--Helen Rowland
Sexiness wears
thin after a while and beauty fades, but to be married
to a man who makes you laugh every day, ah, now that's a real treat.
--Joanne Woodward
We learn from
history that we do not learn from history
--Georg Wilhelm Hegel.
"Tact is
the ability to describe others as they see themselves."
--Abraham Lincoln
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November
8, 2004. Joe Feola turns 54 today
and Richard Bardo celebrates his birthday,
too.
On this day in...
1864, Abraham Lincoln was reelected, defeating Democrat George
B. McClellan and carrying all but three states. In 1892,
former President Grover Cleveland defeated incumbent President Benjamin
Harrison, becoming the only chief executive to win non-consecutive
terms in the White House. Cleveland was the 22nd and 24th Presidents
of the United States. In 1904,
Theodore Roosevelt defeated Democrat Alton B. Parker. In 1932,
Franklin Delano Roosevelt defeated incumbent President Herbert Hoover
to become the 32nd President of the United States. In 1960,
John F. Kennedy, 43, defeated Richard M. Nixon in the presidential
election. In 1988,
George Herbert Walker Bush and Indiana Senator Dan Quayle were elected
President and Vice-Presidents, defeating Massachusetts Governor Michael
Dukakis and Texas Senator Lloyd Bentsen. Bush was the first incumbent
vice president to win election since Martin Van Buren won in 1836.
1954, the American
League approved the transfer of the Philadelphia Athletics baseball
team to Kansas City. Later, the A's moved to Oakland.
1965, "Like
sands through the hourglass, these are the days of our lives..."
introduced the soap opera, Days of Our Lives, which debuted
on NBC-TV. This week Brandon decides to stick around Salem a little
longer, some of the Salem captives remain lost and do not return to
Salem, Nicole and Brady make it back, and Nicole stands to get everything
with Victor and Caroline missing! We don't understand what all this
means, but this is what will happen this week. See how much time we've
saved you!
The last day of July in 1913 in Columbia County was a turning
point for those who planned to marry. On that date, a new marriage
license law went into effect and a new series of questions became
mandatory to answer in order to marry. The questions were a sign of
the times, and would make most people hiccup today. The speculation
at the time was that the "questions would lead to out-of-state
marriages."
Some of the questions were rather standard and straight-forward: the
full name and surname, occupation, birthplace, residence, age, name
and surname of the father and of the mother, plus the occupation of
the father and the mother and their birthplaces. From there, the questions
got a little more pointed. The next set of questions included the
color of the applicants and of the applicant's father and mother,
and the date of death or divorce of the former spouse. The next question
was a scorcher. "Is applicant an imbecile, epileptic, of unsound
mind or under guardianship as a person of unsound mind, or under the
influence of any intoxication liquor or narcotic drug?" The questions
didn't end there. The next question in order to get a marriage license
in Columbia County was "Has applicant, within five years been
an inmate of any county asylum or home for indigent persons? Is applicant
physically able to support a family? Are applicants related by blood
or marriage?
Shirley Yost taught at Benton High
School from 1970-1998 and lived in Benton from 1970-1977. Shirley
is looking for information on her husband Robert's family. His grandmother
Margaret Young, Danville, married Charles Albert
Yost sometime in the 1920's. There may have been another marriage
to a Mr. Jenkins before she married Mr. Yost. Mr. Yost passed away
in 1929 when Shirley's father-in-law was 5 years old. The family has
been told "that he is buried in the cemetery on the hill behind
the feed mill." A search of cemetery records does not locate
Mr. Yost. If anyone knows more of Charles Albert Yost, let us know.
Want to spend some time looking up financial information? Here
are some places to do it on the internet, assuming that you are trying
to do it free.
Yahoo! Finance, http://finance.yahoo.com/
Yahoo! Finance Weekend, biz.yahoo.com/weekend
Business pages of the Net York Times, www.nytimes.com
San Jose Mercury News, www.mercurynews.com
Business Wire, www.businesswire.com
CBS Market Watch, cbs.marketwatch.com
Reuters, www.reuters.com
Powerswings, www.powerswings.com
The first clue that something different was happening in Benton was
when the entire town stopped what they were doing last night to listen
intently. A sound like the introduction to the Billy Joel song Goodnight
Saigon got louder and louder, and lights suddenly illuminated the
airport. A Chinook cargo helicopter hurled into town with complete disregard
for the posted speed limit within the Borough. The Benton Volunteer
Fire Department was waiting as a trim, fit man in military garb leaped
to the ground and jumped into the waiting fire truck.
Down on Main Street, Pastor Calvin Miller
of the Benton U.M. Church was adjusting his precisely fitting Sergeant's
uniform, while running through a checklist of things that needed attending
to for the "Honoring God and Country" services sponsored
by the Benton Council of Churches. Seconds later, the Benton Firemen
proudly and briskly walked though the front door of the church with
Brigadier General Jerry Beck, Jr., who
until minutes before was the primary passenger in the Chinook helicopter.
At precisely 7 PM, the enormously talented Alan
Hack began playing the piano and an evening of fellowship,
worship and praise began. Handbells began ringing and the enthusiastic
audience started singing the Battle Hymn of the Republic. The
local boy scout troop, #51, presented the colors and the audience
broke into You're a Grand Old Flag. Kelsea
Miller gave the pledge to the flag, and in appreciation later
General Beck gave Kelsea and her friends Melanie
Schlegel, Olivia Johnson and Tom
Kester a tour of the Chinook and instilled some memories that
will never be forgotten.
The Community Choir sang the National Anthem, followed by Rev.
Mark Shellenberger giving the "Recognition of the Flags."
The Benton Volunteer Firemen and the Boy Scout Troop #51 had the "lighting
of the candles" ceremony. An armed forces medley began playing,
songs like The Caissons Go Rolling Along, Anchors Aweigh--songs
that brought tears to people's eyes as they watched the veterans stand
who served in each of the military departments. The room came alive
with men who stood as their service songs were played. Men like LCDR
(Ret.) Bill Repco, a 28-year veteran, a man who served his
country for 14 years in the enlisted ranks and 14 years as an officer.
Not at all shabby for a man who only completed tenth grade! Bill has
a son in the Navy and one in the Marine Corps, and proudly wore his
uniform, the same one he used when he retired from the Aviation Supply
Office, Philadelphia.
Navy Captain Joe English (Ret.),
now a Lake Ganoga resident, still looked trim in the uniform he wore
when he retired at the age of 63. Don King
only weighs five pounds more today than he did when he left the service
in 1945.
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Sgt. Calvin Miller with his 13 medals and 17
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Songs like America the Beautiful, America, Onward
Christian Soldiers, Praise God, from Whom All Blessings Flow,
God Bless America, and Amazing Grace came roaring out
of the mouths of the audience, just as contributions collected for
the Wilkes-Barre VA Medical Chapel Fund were generously provided.
The contributions were so generous, in fact, that Rev. Miller had
to find some unused Easter baskets to hold all the money. Sam
Dressler from the edge of the recreation hall and Joe
Shultz from the basement played Taps, and eyes started
to tear up.
Pastor Miller folded the American flag, with help from Troop 51
and from Pastor Howard Leh who explained
the significance of each fold. Virginia Thomas
provided the "Recognition of Veterans in Attendance."
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Few received more applause than did SFC
Richard Lukashewski, a 14-year Army veteran, who attended
with his family. SFC Lukashewski just returned from Iraq where
he served from January, 2004, to October, 2004, with the 416th
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General Beck, the deputy Commanding General of the 28th Infantry
Division (Mechanized), acknowledged the Chinook's landing, saying
"I think we shook the whole town up!" In his address to
the congregation, General Beck said that our "soldiers have given
something of themselves and some have given their all."
The 28th Infantry Division is a National Guard Division trained
to conduct missions in support of the federal government and the Commonwealth
of Pennsylvania. During peacetime, division soldiers can be called
by the Governor for emergency situations, such as disaster relief
and assisting civil law enforcement authorities. The 28th Infantry
Division is the oldest division in the armed forces of the United
States, dating to March 12, 1879. General Beck pointed out that elements
of the division can trace their histories back to 1747, when Benjamin
Franklin organized his battalion of "Associators" in Philadelphia.
Pastor Miller,
the Benton United Methodist Church and the Benton Council of Churches,
all the veterans who participated, along with all the people who so
ably provided the entertainment and the refreshments, are to be commended
for making it a swell evening to be Back Home in Benton, PA.
We apparently won't be able to get immunized for the flu this year,
so we intend to stay clear of people who have the flu and we intend
to wash our hands frequently with ordinary soap. From what we read,
and we are not attempting to dispense medical guidance at this point,
the fancy soaps don't help all that much. Ordinary soaps won't kill
the bug, but will make your hands slippery, so the virus slides off
under water. Make it a habit this winter to wash your hands often
and well.
Randy and Linnea Holdren are beaming
just like the happy new grandparents they are. Joseph
and Keri Cardone have a daughter, Isabella
Renee Cardone.
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